You are Grown!
Being an ADULT is about taking charge, being able to operate independent from your parents and love ones, and taking care of your responsibilities.
When you cross the 21 year old mark, you should no longer look for others to solve your problems. You should no longer blame others for the conditions of your life. And last but not least, you should no longer expect anyone to do anything for you.
YOU ARE GROWN!! The years of you being catered to and provided for are over!!!!
Being an adult is about taking full control of your life and handling your business. If you are not willing to do that, you are still a child!